If you’ve followed our international adoption story, you may already know pieces of this adventure. But today, I’m sharing the full journey, including the most unexpected twist of all: discovering I was pregnant while waiting to bring home our daughter from South Africa and ultimately giving birth abroad during our adoption travel. Yes, you read that right… I gave birth in South Africa while finalizing our daughter's adoption. It wasn’t part of the plan, but looking back now, I wouldn’t change a thing.

If you’ve landed here, chances are adoption has tugged on your heart, and if so, welcome to one of the most life-altering journeys you’ll ever walk. International adoption is layered with paperwork, delays, emotional highs and lows, and plenty of unknowns. But it’s also lined with indescribable joy, fierce love, and a deep sense of purpose. Whether you're just beginning to explore adoption or deep in the trenches, I want to offer not just encouragement, but help based on our personal experience navigating international adoption in South Africa during a global pandemic and a surprise pregnancy. I’ve been in your shoes… overwhelmed, confused, and wondering what comes next. So here’s our story, step-by-step, along with insights I hope will guide you.